When children's grades are low, parents usually know what to do. We help children focus on study skills and other ways to improve their grades. We might meet with teachers to discuss new approaches.
But what if your child gets all A's? Some parents make the mistake of looking for something that can be improved. "Why did you get an A- instead of an A?" they might ask. But this can deflate and anger your child. He can go through school and life thinking—nothing he does is "good enough." Some children become perfectionists, never satisfied with their efforts. And some become frustrated and stop trying so hard.
A much better response to a good report card is to:
